THIS IS HOW YOU HAVE A SUCCESSFUL LIFE

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THIS IS HOW YOU HAVE A SUCCESSFUL LIFE
successful life tips

Don’t we all want a successful life? Yes, we do! Well, the life we call successful can be slightly different for all of us.

Mindset

Today’s topic is a little deeper than usual! We go straight to the truth. So you want to have a successful life? Then follow these rules below. Just know that there is no step-by-step guide to a successful life, and the quick tips will only help you in the short run

What we provide in this post are rules for success that will be the basis of the process. Enjoy the read to know how to achieve a successful life!

 

WHAT IS A SUCCESSFUL LIFE FOR YOU?

If you want to have a successful life, you have to first understand the meaning of a successful life according to you. Does having a successful life means having a lot of money, a lot of solid friendships, financial freedom, or maybe the ability to travel anywhere you want? 

In other words, what you need to do is to write down what a successful life is to you. You have to be really detailed. Visualize a successful life. Understand that you will not achieve a successful life if you do not know in detail what it looks like. 

Once you find your own meaning of success in life, you are ready to start the process!

 

YOUR COMPETITION IS NOT THEM

You will need to engrave this into your mindset if you want to be successful. You will need to compete against yourself daily. Not against them. Not the outer world. Not the people who always bring you down or the ones that make you feel like crap and like you are not enough. Not the ones that don’t listen to you. 

Look in the mirror right now. The only competition is the one you see in the mirror

 

MAKE A COMMITMENT 

Being successful takes time and patience. If you really want to be successful in anything, you need to commit to your goal. From now on, everything you do will need to help you reach your goal. If it doesn’t say, then just say NO. Don’t make excuses and pass!! You will see that saying can save you a lot of time, sometimes years! 

 

BECOME THE LEADER IN YOUR OWN LIFE

You have to become your leader and lead a successful life! 

Tips to lead a successful life:

  • Turn the page
  • Don’t look back
  • Don’t listen to negative thoughts
  • Don’t listen to negative people
  • Don’t be the one surrounded by people who bring you down
  • Stay away from anything negative
  • Don’t look at your phone when you wake up
  • Understand that what you’ve been doing for the last years has not been working for you!

If you need more help with negative self-talk, read Alicia’s article on Femmallure.

 

MEDITATE

If you meditate, you will stay focus. Indeed, when you are trying to change your life, your focus is critical. If you want to be successful, it is often challenging to stay on track, and sometimes you need a little help. 

Daily meditation should be your best friend

 

HAVE AN ACTIVE LIFESTYLE

If you sit in front of your TV for hours remember that this will happen:

  1. You will never accomplish anything in life
  2. You will gain unnecessary weight
  3. You will get lazy (remember that most successful people do not watch TV. Even movie stars do not watch their own movies!
  4. You will never meet the right people 
  5. You will limit yourself and do mediocre things
  6. You will forget about your dreams

If you decide to have an active lifestyle, this will happen:

  1. You will meet new people and be inspired by their accomplishment
  2. You will go after your dreams
  3. You will be healthier
  4. You will have more energy
  5. You will be closer to a successful life

 

GO OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

TRUST THIS IS A BIG ONE! If you do not get out of your comfort zone, you will go nowhere. You will be the same person you are now in 10 years, but with extra pounds and wrinkles. Lame right? Can you imagine how much of your life you are wasting by doing the same you’ve been doing for years? Huh!

 

TRUTH IS, YOU HAVE TO TAKE RISKS

Think of it this way. If you don’t take the risk to learn how to swim, you will never know how to swim. If you don’t take the risk to take the plane, you will never go places. You have to take the risk to succeed. If you don’t take the risk of doing what it takes to be successful, you will never succeed. 

 

BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS

In other words, if someone is mean to you, it’s because you let that person be mean. If you have low self-esteem, it’s because you let people get in your head. If you have no self-confidence, it’s because you let your negativity rule your life. 

 

FIND A MENTOR ASAP!

Have you ever heard of masterminds? A mastermind is a set open minded people with mentors that have already accomplished things in life. These things should be similar to the things that you want to accomplish. When you join a mastermind, you have a mentor that will help you reach your goals. What you have to do is participate and ask pertinent questions. It’s a huge opportunity that can truly help you change your life. 

 

DON’T SAY TOO MUCH

When you have the surge to change your life, you will feel the need to tell everyone! Do not do that!

Don’t start saying your plans to everyone for the following reasons:

  1. People are going to steal your ideas.
  2. People are not going to believe in you because you didn’t prove anything yet. 
  3. People are going to be negative, and they will try to stop you. 

 

ADDITIONAL TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL LIFE

Understand the importance of sacrifice. You can’t become successful in life if you don’t make any sacrifices. A great thing to do at this point would be to list the main sacrifices you will need to make to reach success in life. 

Understand that your success most likely won’t happen overnight. It is something that most of the time will take time and patience. If you want success overnight, you may want to try to win the lottery, but most success happens based on your decisions

Understand that people will try to drop their own barriers on you. Their limiting belief should not stop you from going after your successful life

SUMMARY:

  • WHAT IS A SUCCESSFUL LIFE FOR YOU?
  • YOUR COMPETITION IS NOT THEM
  • MAKE A COMMITMENT
  • BECOME THE LEADER IN YOUR OWN LIFE
  • MEDITATE
  • HAVE AN ACTIVE LIFESTYLE
  • GO OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE
  • TRUTH IS, YOU HAVE TO TAKE RISKS
  • BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS
  • FIND A MENTOR ASAP!
  • DON’T SAY TOO MUCH
  • ADDITIONAL TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL LIFE

 

TO WRAP EVERYTHING UP, having a successful life is a choice. Either you make the sacrifices, or you don’t. 

How not to make it: You give up when there is a setback.

How to make it: The limits in your life are just in your freaking head. Remember to always work harder than you did yesterday and believe in your dreams. 

Without a goal and commitment, you will probably get nowhere in life

The thing is, you have to find the right goals, be surrounded by the right people, and put yourself first. Self-love will help you in your quest for a successful life.

 

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